The Way: Moving On.
Actually, I’m pretty inlove right now but my friend wanted to know some ways to deal with this topic. Soooo. Lets do this! lol
- Before you blame yourself, get a reality check.
Sometimes you might not realize that you’re that one thats been played over. There’s alot infront of you and depression may keep you from realizing anything. You wont but your friends will, before you ask for another chance, ask your friends what they saw happened between you two. What might have felt entirely your fault might have looked totally opposite to them. Maybe she/he was the one with the problems, did you think of that? Your friends did! Your awesome friends that got your back!- Stop the flow of negative thoughts you send to yourself.
You can easily think of reasons why it was your fault. Can you come up with evidence that it wasn’t yours only to blame? I know you can!
Fill in teh blanks:
He/she turned me down because of his/her own _______.
If he/she werent so _______ he/she would have noticed that I’m ______.
I am too good for him/her because ________.- Let it go.
Things happen. Don’t beat yourself up. Nobody is perfect and you can;t please everybody. Try not to repeat history but don’t worry if you do. Be kinder and gentler to yourself because you need it most. Let go of self-blame. Its the only way to keep yourself from becoming negative. Smile!- Remind youself that rejection isn’t always personal.
Maybe he or she wasnt really “the one” for you, or maybe you guys werent right for each other. Personalities collide especially interests. In a way it was you but think of it as “I finished it now so it wont be as hard in the future.” its not always personal, you were just incompatible. That way you won’t have to wait longer for “the one” :)- Get out of the house and learn something new!
Chilling is fine but if you’ve been chilling for too long its time to get out of that bed and go have some fun! Go out! Go to places you didn’t go to with your previous parter, you might even find another person worth your time and personality! Always look around to see intereseting people everywhere, you’ll see them eventually. Go to new places and flirt! Learning something new will give you less time to sulk around the house. It simply gives you less time to think about the bad times and learning something new is always fun if you’re into it ;). Focus your thoughts into it and let it absorb your attention. Maybe you have talents you didnt know or things you wanted to learn. Have fun!I’m in love! <3
To be continued.
(Source: aboywhoreads)
